there is always somebody you can go to, domestic violence hot line, i worked with, ywca, a supporterf women and their rights, domestic violence. i have to say that one of the thing that i think, e thi think people by nature are very, very good. i think as the media is playing this out, i think part of, everybody is so shocked to actually see this, to see a woman, who is small in stature, there is nothing you can really do to protect yourself. i think that's what's so difficult for the media, or the world to wrap their minds around. i think one of the things i think is so wonderful. i have always believed this, as i discuss this issue with different people. it is when men begin to stand up and say "this is unacceptable." this is absolutely wrong. we will never accept this. it moves the conversation along. moves us in the right direction >> we are frying trying to do t tonight. we appreciate your personal story and your sharing it with us. robin givens, thank you for joining us. >> thank you, thank you for having me. >> former and current players are starting to stand up and voice thei