and one last point, just to pick up something zahra said about, you were talking about siblings and aboutw you never fight with anyone as you do with a sibling. hear, hear, my sister is not watching. the problem with that analogy is that sometimes i look at our community and again, feel free to disagree. i don't think we behave as a family. there's very little evidence of that. perhaps sections do. but sections certainly don't. i give the example of those of white house, and those of us an this platform who have taken an unpopular stance, a stance that the majority hasn't agreed with. i can only speak for myself but we don't feel like a member of the family when you take that stance. doesn't matter how much credit in your bank account, how much good work you've done. there's a lot of suspicion in our community, a lot of lack of trust which most families, of course, do have trust. no matter how bad your son or daughter is you'll still give your life for them, still trust them. i give you one example from my own life. i've written, what, 20, 30, 40 articles, columns, blogs about israel, abo