zhao zufa doubts he will find a wife. he is 45 years old, and lives at home to care for his widowed mother. his brother is also unmarried, and has moved away to find work. zhao fears he will likely spend the rest of his days a bachelor, tilling fields of corn and chinese cabbage. >> "my conditions do not allow me to go out to earn money, so i can't find a wife and do not have any children yet. and my family still lives in deep poverty." most single women have left the village in search of better- paying jobs in the cities. some men have left too, but many like zhao stay behind, fulfilling an obligation to tend to parents and property. "all the young girls have left home and work in shoe factories in zhejiang province so that they can send money home. they discover that place is better than our village so they get married there. -and don't come back. even when their parents are dying, they will only send back money and not come to say farewell." zhao says marriage in his village comes for a price. "if you want to marry a wi