hello, dear viewers, you are watching the podcast triggers, with you its hosts tatyana krasnovskaya,t, psychologist psychotherapist sergei nasebyan, our guest today is the beautiful elena, let's talk about her story. hello, hello, elena, tell us what you came to us with, i came. with my story on the topic of relationships, i would like to talk about what kind of men i meet on my way, i very often encounter abusive relationships, and usually in a row, yes, that is, the first relationship of this format was with the father of my child, yes we get we lived together for about a year, and as a rule they tried to change me in this relationship, i was 25 years old, we met, he was older than me, everything happened in such a way that i seemed to be wrong in everything, i younger, and thus, yes , there was a certain kind of suppression of me all the time, and i was always a noticeable girl, let’s say, i didn’t want to be liked by others always, from a very early age... i, i didn’t understand who needed it, yes , at that moment it seemed to me, okay, i’ll be what you want, yes, as long as you