kaplan spoke to don's landlord, benny ruiz, who'd shown up at the scene.ered if his murder had anything to do with his work with homeless people. don's mom, sharon, out in california, got a call in the middle of the night. detective kaplan was on the line. >> he said ma'am, i'm sorry, your son is dead, and i think i started screaming. >> just 19 days before, she had lost her eldest daughter to cancer. 19 years before that, her youngest daughter had also died. and now, don. >> i could not get my head around it. it didn't seem real. >> i just started screaming no over and over again. my dad was obviously a mess. >> the news soon made its way to oklahoma, where don's older children lived. >> i was just like no, this isn't real. this stuff don't happen. you just see the stuff on tv. >> this is an intimate, hands- on murder. >> up close and very violent and personal, yeah. >> who would put a target on your brother, of all people, mr. sunday night spaghetti? >> my first thought was terry. i even told the detective that. >> terry white, don's wife. sienna and chr