the travis manion foundation is just one, right, but we are the community that you can turn to.use of the travis manion foundation, because of the thousands of members of our spartan community, i feel no matter how lonely, how isolated i may feel, i know that i have people that are right there beside me that are going to build me up when i'm feeling at my lowest. >> griff: and there are not enough hours in the day, ryan, to recount the stories i've personally witnessed and people i have met that were that broken brother or sister or spouse or parent that was curled up in that ball, but yet through the participation, through the spartan leadership program and other things that the team is doing, you have made a difference. is there one story that stands out for you? >> you know, i think for me, i'm travelling to puerto rico in january for the fourth time with a group of families of the fallen and i take with me a young woman named veronica ortiz, she lost her husband jave, he was puerto rican decent, and she said i don't want to be part of a widow's club and i promise you, that's