>> announcer: from nbc news, this is "today" with kathie lee gifford and hoda kotb, live from studio 1a in rockefeller plaza. oh, yeah. it's friday, everybody. march 25th, 2016. good friday for those of you no observe. surprise -- >> i'm not kathie lee, and this ain't hoda. >> i'm not hoda. we love them. >> yes, but they are not here. i'm jenna bush hager alongside sheinelle jones. they're both off for the first time ever. should we be scared? >> everybody says, no pressure, but this is the first time both of them have been gone at the same time. >> hoda called me last night and

my husband goes -- hoda was like, no pressure. we've never done it before. >> they left behind a message for the two of us. >> i'm sure it was nice. >> let's see what they had to say. >> this is going to be weird because this is the first time you and i have been separated in eight years on the show. >> right. >> well, i have a feeling the show is in good hands. >> i don't know. >> not at all. >> no. >> no. it's jenna and sheinelle. >> i know. well, if they -- look -- >> if they drink our wine -- >> stay away from the vino. i see you, jenna. drop it. >> put it down. >> put it down! >> put down the straw, too. >> have a good time. >> nice talking to you. >> what was that? oh, don't drink the wine? >> we'll be good. >> we know where they are. we're drinking wine. that's where they are. >> tell me about it. spring break 2016, baby! >> oh, yeah, look at that. >> you know what? we couldn't show the wet t-shirt

contest, but we know you're doing that, too. >> if they did, who would win? >> that's a good question. >> hoda has a body on her. >> so does kathie lee. she can be a wild girl. >> when they were doing body shots, some jell-o shots. and we're two moms sipping our chardonnay. >> we promised not to run around in your dressing rooms, trying on your clothes. >> we already did. bobbie brings us the best in beauty. today, she has unusual products. she nailed it. if you watch "empire," you know serayah, who plays a pop star. she's also one of taylor swift's besties. she's in the squad. >> she's in the squad. >> we'll catch up with her later. maybe she'll give us secrets. if you have kids who play sports and are tired of the parents who scream from the sidelines, which i've never seen because i was a 2-year-old.

it'll be interesting discussions ahead. easter decor from the dollar store. you don't have to be fancy. >> i love the dollar store. >> me, too. >> who doesn't? i'm from kansas. >> texas. >> you're from kansas? >> yeah, no wonder we get along. one of the reasons i'm excited this was happening is we both have kids that are similar ages. >> yes. >> sheinelle taught me once about this thing you put in the nose. >> the nose freida. >> you suck and the snot comes out. >> sounds gross. >> somebody just vomited. >> eat your meal. it's okay. >> somebody just vomited in the corner. >> here's the thing, i have two 3-year-olds and a 6-year-olds. wasn't planned but it's how it goes, right? >> yeah. >> these are my kids. the nose freida. i like this picture, perfectly imperfect. see how happy they are? it's because mommy sucks the

snot out of their nose so they can breathe clearly. the latest scandal in my house, there's always something. the other day i got home and my youngest son has crazy hair. never been cut until now. >> oh, no. >> i go home, and look at this. >> oh, no. >> one of three huge chunks of his hair. he cut it out. he went to my room. there was a step stool. i had the scissors put up. i trimmed my hair the other day, and i guess he wanted to try it. >> you trim your own hair? >> sometimes. there are the horror stories. so i go home, red sharpie on my good couch. shapes, rectangles. i decided to hold court because daddy wasn't there. i wanted to know who did this. take a look. >> okay. >> no way! >> this is not a game. somebody drew on the couch.

>> it's not me. i would never do that! >> oh, my gosh. judge judy over here. >> that's my life. we're holding court. we're telling daddy when they get home. >> you're a twin. did you blame the other? >> we never did anything like that. are you kidding? we still are blaming each other. >> perfect. >> my sister came over -- there we were. >> awe. >> i was zooming around like a madman. i'm the one in the driver's seat. you know what i'm saying? my sister came over last night and said, did you tell mom something? we're 34 years old. did you tell mom that? i was like, no. she goes, promise? she wouldn't believe me. we're not going to tell. twin power unite. >> i might as well give up now? >> screwed. >> i'll never know who colored on my couch. >> you'll never know who drank the wine cooler in the living room. it was barbara! >> i love that. >> it was barbara, mom.

>> you have to laugh at it. it's one of those things. you see how ecalm i was? you just have to laugh. speaking of laughing, let's start with the cutest video. who doesn't love a baby's laugh? check out brooklyn. when her dad eat s asparagus, se thinks it's hilarious. take a look. [ laughter ]. >> she farted. >> wait, she evidently toots in that, but i didn't hear it. >> just a little bit. it's so cute. >> i have the best baby laughing video. this is mila. this was the best day of my life. [ laughter ].

>> that was the first time she laughed, and it was to my dad. my dad used to say, come back and talk to me when you can talk. stuff like that when she was born. we were all like, well, you're really good. then she laughed at him, and that was it. she had him tied around her finger. >> everybody in the studio is laughing and smiling. there's something about a laughing baby. >> it's the best noise in the entire world. >> because it's pure? >> yes. there's actually nothing more fun than laughing with your children. >> what were you doing? >> i was tickling her. my dad was making the face. it made me feel better that i was tickling her. funny kids. >> happy friday. i have a question, have you ever been asked if you were pregnant when you weren't? >> of course. here's the thing, don't ask

until you're really sure. when you're really sure, be beyond sure. >> do not ask. ever. the reason we're asking, let's hear it on ellen, she was asked about the rumors she was pregnant with her second child. the paparazzi snapped pictures where it seemed like she had a baby bump. >> i read your pregnant. >> i know, isn't it exciting, guys? [ applause ] >> no. >> i don't even know what to say about these things. i feel like, man, i thought i was doing good with my yoga practice. i thought i was in the gym but, no, i have a gut, apparently. >> i heard portia and i are getting divorced. i asked her about it, and she doesn't know anything about it either. >> kudos to her. >> there was a period in time where wikipedia -- before mila was born -- and jenna bush is expecting a baby. somebody sent it to me.

you can change it. wikipedia isn't the most accurate source. i called my mom. they say i'm pregnant. she goes, jenna, it's fine. it's just the boho chic tops you wear, they just make you look like you're pregnant. >> thanks. it's interesting we mention this. the reason why people thought i was pregnant is after i had the twins, they ripped me in half, i had my abdomen -- >> zach is never having kids. >> but it's true. my body -- >> ripping apart scared me. >> it grabbed my attention. there is this runner who is showing off her stomach. a professional runner, stephanie bruce. sorry, zach. we're giving her a special shout out. 32 years old, mom, professional runner. she is inspiring moms everywhere. because she's showing her post baby belly. look at this. she's training for the summer olympics. this is why we like this story. she is fit. she's a runner. she's in the olympics for goodness sake. look at that imperfectly perfect

body. >> that's what happened. >> when you have diastasis, you can lay on your back and push it all the way in. >> i think i'm done with two kids. >> she's like, this is me, and people love her for it. we're not perfect. >> exactly. i think it's great. i was going to say, the first picture she looked like she had amazing abs. >> they're in there somewhere. you just can't see them. >> let's not judge women based on their women anymore. >> how about that? >> cheers. have you dreamt you'd be late to your wedding? >> we'll analyze your dreams after this.

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dream -- >> i just saw this. >> we're in one ssies. >> while many of us don't remember the dreams, those who do are the people who are motivated to pay attention to those dreams. >> what are all the dreams meaning? lori, professional dream analyst, is here to help us analyze some of them. good morning. >> hi. i didn't get a onesie. >> you can have mine. it's a little itchy. we all have the same dreams, of our teeth falling out, being chased, the doors opening. there's one dream they say is reoccurring, which i have yet to

have in my sleep. i've had it in real life. that is the dirty toilet dream. what exactly is it? >> it's a good sign you're not getting the dirty, filthy, clogged toilet dream. it's common for women to get this dream. the toilet symbolizes your ability to relieve yourself of frustration, to flush away the negativity in your life. i get the toilet dream. >> you do? >> i do. for those of us who will hold in our frustration and not speak out about what's bothering us, we'll get the dream. our mind is showing us what our psyche looks like when we hold it? >> it's dirty and gross. >> get rid of it. >> what is it about recurring dreaming? every night or so often, you're dreaming the same thing. >> two main reasons we get reoccurring dreams. one is a pattern. every time you exhibit the behavior in real life, you get the dream connected to it. the other reason is because it's connected to anion lie ongoing .

it happens as long as the issue persists. >> we're on comfortable chairs. i have this dream often. this dream is that i have -- i'm in school, in university. i am in a math class, which was not my strongest subject. i have not only skipped the class multiple times, but i also have an exam i have not studied for. i feel like i am going to flunk, which i have never done. what does this mean? >> probably most of your viewers are going, i get that dream, too. the back at school dream is comment. 10, 20, 30, 40 years after we graduated. most likely connected to your job or career. school was your first job and you learn the dynamics of being on time, being prepared, homework. you want to move up to the next level. same thing. now you're late for a math test. that is a specific in the dream which is connected to a specific thing in real life. math is usually about the numbers in your life. finances, investments, your

salary. >> hmm. >> when you get the dream, look what's going on with your finances. might be an issue there. >> speaking of recurring dreams, i dreamed as a kid that -- well, i wasn't rich -- but that i could fly. >> and falling. remember that? >> is that connected? i remember one time i was at church -- dreaming i was at church and i bust out and i'm flying over pyramids and swimming pools. i could almost feel it. >> the wind in your hair. it's wonderful. it's the most common dream children get. as a kid you run around in the backyard. >> so fun. >> the characters we read out, they fly. it tapers off as we get older because we realize life isn't that much fun anymore. >> we have a couple dreams from viewers. this is melanie from hawaii. she says, i always dream about large animals, lions, tigers and bears, oh, my, being in my yard and i'm trying to find a way

into the house without them seeing me. my dream always ends before i find a way in. p.s., the animals never catch me. >> phew. it tells us this is something she's avoiding in real life. something she doesn't want to deal with. it'll show up when she's avoiding. the animals in the dream give us a clue as to what it is. they're predatory animals, lions and tigers. it symbolizes our ability to go on the prowl, guess what we want. our ability to be fierce. she's avoiding that because she may not feel comfortable and she's in a situation where she needs to get in touch with her inner fierceness and use her claws. >> we talked about this in the makeup room. i can't control myself. what does it mean when you have dreams about people from your past? they don't have to be naughty in nature. >> maybe ex-boyfriends, girl-friends. >> not that i've had those, henry. if you have, what do those mean? >> everything in your dream is going to symbolize a part of

yourself or something that directly affects the self. how can you identify yourself in these people? for example, i tend to dream of this classmate from third grade, who was very shy and never showed up. he'll show up when i'm being shy and not shoeg wing up. >> i've been psychoanalyzed. have you dreamed of a flat aar iron that can condition oh, look...

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we're back on this good friday. i'm jenna bush hager, along with sheinelle jones. kathie lee and hoda are both off today. if easter is taking you by surprise, which it has for me, and you haven't figured out your table, you're not alone. >> we're about to show you how to put together a table on a dime. well, a few dollars. a lot of items you're going to see are from the dollar store. >> i love the dollar store. the celebrity and lifestyle expert that designs weddings and big events, what up? >> how are you? >> good morning. >> the dollar store. you had us at the dollar store. some of this comes from there. >> 90% of this comes from the dollar store. >> let's take it step by step. what do you start with? >> well, what do you have at home? >> look in your closet, look in your mom's closet, your sister's

closet. find something that inspires you. borrow, borrow, raid, raid. >> what comes from your house? >> this is a shower curtain. >> no! >> it is. >> table cloth? >> it's a shower curtain. >> brilliant. you can also use what else? >> a nice sheet. or if you have it already, use a table cloth. >> great idea. >> you also say phone a friend. borrow some things, right? >> call your friends, call your sisters, see what they have. plates, glasses, vases, borrow what you can. >> how do you keep it from looking -- or not looking -- i made this word up -- janky? >> is that not a real word? >> i don't know. that do you do to make it look like you didn't go to the dollar store? >> pick a color palate and don't go outside too much. don't do too much matchy-matchy.

>> i love hosting parties more than anything in the entire world, besides being a mom. these plate settings are adorable and only $1? >> this plate and bowl is from the dollar store. >> talk to me about this. >> isn't this adorable? >> this is an egg from my house. that's a marker from my house. the box, the candiccandies, all the dollar store. >> extra fancy. >> when your guests sit down, they want to see something pretty and personalized. >> did you write that yourself? >> what a coincidence. >> it's good to find white plates or something like that. is that true? >> you can reuse these every celebration you have. every holiday. never goes out of style. >> one of the things -- my mom sent the girls their easter baskets and there were eggs she used in our easter baskets. save things, reuse them, right?

>> think about a vase from your wedding. a vase you got from any other celebration and use it. >> i almost need inspiration. if i can see a picture, i say, this is my vision, call my friends and go to the dollar store and make it happen. >> you can mind inspiration online. find it at a window when you're walking through the city. or a piece of clothing. i was inspired by this shower curtain. >> you kree ycreated these your. i'm no florist. >> flowers can be tricky. we're not all floral designers. you can get basic flowers at your local supermarket or a local flouris iflorist. put them in small groupings. when you do that -- look at these three. >> instead of all colors, just do pink? >> start out in one color. >> happy easter. >> beautiful table setting. coming up, kids and sports. how to push them to success without being too pushy yourself. plus, the hottest trends in

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i'm excited about this one. you know this saying, it's not about winning or losing but how you play the game. >> for some parents, you know who you are, you get too competitive on the sidelines. >> how can you push your kids to do their best on the playing field without putting too much pressure on them, and getting other parents angry at you? >> amy is the author of "the me, me, me epidemic" and a child and

family psychologist. hi, guys. >> good morning. >> i'm perfectly okay with my kids to be average. average at sports. average -- i mean, they're exceptional, and maybe that's why i think that and i'm their mother. but tell us how we can teach competition to kids and what age we talk about. >> kids are going to be competitive naturally. it's part of the human condition. i think what's important is what you value. do you place value on winning? if that's the case, the child is always going to think that's the measure of success. if they don't win, are you going to be disappointed? or do we place value on working hard, putting it all out on the field, the teamwork, encouraging others? if we put the emphasis there, it's a nice way to balance our natural, competitive instinct. >> i'm with you. not that this is my personal therapy hour, but i have a picture of my son -- >> lay it down. >> a couple years ago, the first big competition, i have a 6-year-old, and we put him in a

pony riding competition. my husband volunteers to run horses. i was terrified because this was his first race. so this is my husband. pulling my son. >> huge. >> look at my little guy. i'm screaming. can i it will you, this is the happiest i've ever seen him. even to this day. i was so worried if he lost, how he was going to act. he won! he was so excited. here's why i brought this up. because the next time he lost, and he was devastated. >> right. >> plays soccer now. i love my child. he's a little genius, but he doesn't like to lose. >> most of us don't, right? amy referred to the fact, we have a survival of the fitness instinct. we want to get to the top of the food chain. for kids, we have to teach them that losing with grace is really important. saying good game to the guy when you lose to them. or even when you win. you don't want to win and shove it in their face, you don't want to lose and be a bad loser.

validating how hard it is to lose, and not everybody can be the winner. that's okay. the next time, you'll try again. what were you wroproud of in th moment? focus on the effort and things they felt good about. it turns losing into an experience to learn from. >> i think we learn, obviously, from our parents. the reason i'm not pushing mila to be some star is because my parcht parents didn't do that to me. she's in ballet and gymnastics. she's great and likes it. most importantly, she has fun. >> awe, so cute. >> looks good in a tutu. that's why we do it, because of the smile. i'm nervous about the competition stage. we're not there yet. where parents yell. what can i do as a mom to kind of bring down that sort of climate? >> you can be a good example. be a good role model. >> what do you say to the other parents? >> you can gently, you know, sort of bring them into the discussion as you're encouraging

other kids. the issue with parents coaching from the sidelines and yelling and criticizing ref reeereerefe disruptive for the whole team. a tennis coach said it's about bound ris. would you go into your kids' classroom and teach while the teacher is in charge? are you giving instructions at piano lessons? no. why do we do it at sports? parents get so excite and had are coaching from the sidelines, criticizing the players and other referees. it's just not good practice. >> you've seen that, right? >> yeah, it's all about balance. we want our kids to have this fuel to win. you hear the buzzword, grit. we want them to have that, but also balance. they can't be snots that can't win. >> you want them to persevere, but also persevere with appreciation. >> it's a challenge. >> sometimes not during the game, but maybe setting up a time after the game, when all the heat is off, sit down and have a conversation and say, when you do that, i know it doesn't motivate our kids. it is amotivating.

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>> now it seems as though life is imitating art. serayah signed a deal with columbia records, and you're going out as a solo artist. >> yes. thank you. >> we have to talk about "empire" a little bit. they've said these characters are based on real people. who is your character based on? tell us the juice. >> my character is based on so many r&b divas, pop star divas. but the main people they wanted us to portray, especially on stage, was jay-z and beyonce. "keep it moving" was our jay and beyonce inspired moment. >> by the way, that's a pretty tall order. >> right. exactly. i'm watching the video like, okay. i'm be beyonce. i guess i can try this. i can attempt. it was really good. everyone liked that performance and that song. i'm happy it came out really good. >> the song we're listening to -- i confess to you and

jenna, i love the season one soundtrack. i listen to it on spotify. >> major fan girl on yours. >> i don't know the words so bear with me. tell me if i'm crazy. goes -- ♪ >> sing it. >> can you imagine getting dressed in the morning? >> i love it. >> it's so tunnfunny. "keep it moving," in that performance, there are kids on youtube who do exactly that performance for their talent show. it's cute. >> we love it. >> yeah. >> i love you see yourself in the mirror like beyonce. we want to talk about you, your solo artist. you're different than who you portray on tv. what is your sound? >> more personal to my personality. i would describe it as sing --

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