fred tecce, steve rogers, detective lieutenant in nuttily, new jersey. also with us dr. linda young. linda, i have to start with you on a human level. >> okay. >> how does someone deal with this? you are hours away from getting married and you accidentally shoot and kill your soon to be wife? >> well the grief in combination with the zbrilt to be unfathomable. i don't think any of us can imagine what this guy is going through. exponentially worse trauma than one or the other alone. for him to have her die at his own and in the process of hoping to save her with the wedding so close, i can't imagine what he goes through. he may be traumatized for the rest of his life. >> linda, i will stay with you. there were break-ins in the community so maybe he was on edge. does that sound rational, but to be that quick with getting your gun and shooting without identifying to make sure? >> i do know that when people are on edge they may become hypervigilant. i don't know whether he was sleeping lightly or sleeping at all or whether she was in bed with him or not. people can have hair