bettye lavette is back. and she can call the shots these days. sweet, sweeter that it happened the way it happened, or not? >> in some ways, it is more satisfying than sweet. i am like anybody else's grandmother. i have no desire to put on at 6- inch heels and thrash around. t not only goes on the road every three, four, five years. i'm like any other old woman. this is not what i prefer to be doing it in my spare time, but this is the first time i have ever had the opportunity to make any money and i have to show up. i'm glad i am healthy and strong and able to do it, but there are things. i have to give up most of my time to rest so i can be strong enough to do this. it is a lot of things. it is certainly something i wish had happened when i was younger, but i have no desire to be younger. i have no desire to be younger. i have done all that. tavis: now bettye lavette is doing philosophy, and i love it. she does the heck out of this cd. it is not often on this show i go over board is saying how much i think you're absolutely all to add somethin