but on her way she almost kidnaps a man called avram and avram is the love of her life. he's not her husband but he had... he's affected her all her life. and avram, who was like a sparkle of light and life and creativity and passion when he was a young man, in the war of '73, the yom kippur war he fell captive at the hands of the egyptians and he returned broken and he doesn't want any contact with life. but ora by taking him to the galilee and starting to tell him the life story of ofer in a way gradually slowly she commits him back to life and to life of family and what does it mean raise a child. and she tells him about all the smallest details from which we create one human being in the world. we accumulate one human being in the world. and she does it because this is her only way to protect her son who is now in the battlefield. so you see the story is both about the minutiae of life and the wholeness of life, of one family and at the same time it takes place against the terrible situation of the conflict. >> rose: the power of emotion in israel seems different tha