we have got tony robbins who's going to give us some tips.ment, as this nation is dealing with so many worries. >> 15 million people really out of work and it's a lot more than that when you look at people that are underemployed and all the stress that happens. in the holidays, 2/3 of women are prone to depression. >> what's your advice to stay positive, be uplifted even happy in difficult times? >> people say the blues is two emotions, it's either stress or that sadness. they're both coming from expectations. we all have a story about how life is supposed to be, how you're supposed to treat me, how my family is supposed to treat me. we all -- as corny as it sounds, you're going to get real and you've got to stay real with what's really going on. we have had such inflated expectations of how our lives are supposed to be. get perspective by knowing that half the planet lives on $2 a day. so whatever problem you're dealing with, no matter how severe it may be, maybe it's time to sit the kids down and say this is what the holidays are all about.