. >> wilhelmena, one of the issues that he was navigating around in school was sexual identy.ning to question and other students identified that and that was part of the harassment, correct? >> that's correct. >> do you think the response would have been different if your son had been identified as a traditional straight male? >> i think so. i think so. as a matter of fact, i was encouraging josh to cut his hair, and it was not easy for him. one of the things i regret was let him be the person that he is, and that should be good enough. >> that's right. and you did the positive thing. and this is what we need to do as parents because we know that there is a statistic that gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, questioning children are four times more likely to commit suicide versus heterosexual children, and that's without the harassment. so when you throw the harassment in, those children are at risk, and the thing that we need to do is to be there for them every step of the way, for all of our children, for gay, lesbian, bisexual children and so on. i think sometimes there is