they're not diagnosable by the dsm which is the bible for shrinks to diagnose people, of course.s secondary to some sort of depression, anxi y anxiety, maybe obsessive compulsive disorder or personality issue. people can become addicted to sex. they get that high and that high feels so good that it takes more of what's feeding them, whether drugs, whether sex, or the gambling, to keep their personalities, their goals, their motivations going because it felt so darn good in the beginning anyway. >> that leads know wonder how do you put the pieces back together in a marriage or relationship? he's going to have to cold turking stop sexting, top doing what he's doing, getting affirmation from other women than his wife, and just like an alcoholic is encouraged to avoid alcohol, what does he do? he doesn't tweet, doesn't go on-line, doesn't look at other women on-line? >> normally we would say you have to stay away from the internet, but that's almost impossible in this day and age and especially if you're someone like anthony weiner with the kind of position that he has, so perhaps he