as her spouse. >> reporter: when is takako due to be removed from the country?r visa runs out on july 5th. >> reporter: the obama administration announced it would stop defending the defense of marriage act in court, calling it discriminatory. some recent deportation cases have already been suspended. conservatives like congressman james lankford say that's not right. >> you can't just as an executive branch reach back to a previous law that is on the books and say we're not going to enforce that. that is the job of the president of the united states. it's a pretty frightening precedent. >> reporter: is refusing federal benefits like immigration rights to married same sex couples unconstitutional? attorney general eric holder says maybe. still, the administration has not yet stopped all deportations. >> if she had to leave -- it's still really hard for me to think of that, even though the whole past year, every season was oh, god, this is the last season, oh, this is our last thanksgiving, oh, this is the last birthday. >> reporter: with time running out, takako