tatum o'neal. >> i want -- >> reporter: and her real life father, ryan o'neal.dsome and charming, played opposite her. >> so? it's a big town, ain't it? we can do better than 20s. >> reporter: that was then. this is them now. >> temper. the reason that we didn't speak for so long -- >> no it isn't. >> what is it? >> farrah. >> reporter: laying bare decades of family dysfunction in a document about to premiere on own. >> this is about trying to shut a door and open another one. i don't know if it's going to work. i'm going to try. >> reporter: it took 40 years to get here. until she was 8, tatum lived with her mother and little brother. it was chaotic to say the least. her parents had split and her mother, also an actress, was a drug addict. but her kids lived with her anyway. >> we went to the bathroom on the floor. we did a lot of crazy things. >> reporter: there were days, many days, when you weren't fed. when you were locked in the house. when you played with fire. >> it was a hard time. i lived a hard time. there was, you know, tremendous beatings and no foo

call 1-800-sandals. >>> my special guest tatum o'neal.scinating before we went to the break about this awful day for you, michael jackson, a longtime friend and then farrah fawcett dying. >> i mean, that ties into addiction, doesn't it? who knew he was even that addicted, that he was taking something that could kill him every day. that was tragic, and obviously farrah. i sort of lost something that i never had. i never really knew her well enough for her to really take in the role of being my mom. >> you were 15 when your dad got together with her. an awkward age for any daughter. >> for me it was. >> did you feel, not a sense of abandonment -- >> i felt the sense of abandonment. >> you did. >> oh, yeah. >> he was replacing you -- >> he left me for sure for her. i didn't get mad at her. i was mad at him. >>> did you ever get mad at her? >> no. because she was nice. she was a nice woman. and she -- it wasn't her fault it was my dad. he made the choice. so i kind of, i think, there was a point that, first of all, i was 15 and she was the mo

>> that was the role that made tatum o'neal a superstar, "paper moon." her life offscreen has been tumultuous. that life is documented in "ryan and tatum, the o'neals." debuting on the o network. you're like part of my life. we were almost born in the same year. when you were winning your oscars, i was dreaming of winning oscars. i grew up with your dad and the whole thing reverberating. >> great. i always thought were you part of our family. so here we are. we look a little alike. >> maybe we are part of the same family. tell me this, fascinating the history between you two. it's been checkered to put it mildly. do you have an overwhelming sense of relief, both of you, do you think that at least you've managed to get back to somewhere, even if it's not perfect yet in. >> exactly. i think that the conversation has started an that's all i could have asked for because we had such trouble just having the conversation just saying hello, just getting to what's your day like and can you come over for father's day on sunday which my dad asked me earlier today an

o'neal on monday. meanwhile, more with tatum in just a moment.u can save up to 60% on hotels. * we'll even email you other people's winning bids, so you'll know what price to name. *á with new hotel bid alerts, from priceline. >> how would i feel if my father were to say get sick or die even? would i be okay? and i realized that i wouldn't be okay. so i knew i needed to make an effort. because what is your life about? your family. what's your life about? your father. >>> of course a moment from your series on oprah winfrey's own network. you've got a new book "found, a daughter's journey home" which of course it is. >> thank you. >> and part of his journey was that having had these problems with a man with a temper, your dad, you then decide to marry john mcenroe. but even as i say that i want to laugh. >> do you know how old i was when i married him? >> 22. >> exactly. so do you think i had like the full idea of what i was doing in my life? >> this was a guy smashing rackets and shouting "you cannot be serious". i mean, get a clue. >> very inter

in the end, it's tatum o'neal, you were brought up in hollywood royalty. you've had a pretty crazy, fun life as well. tell me about the good stuff. >> first of all, it's funny that you would ask that. right now, honestly, the nicest, best time ever. and i think one of the funnest, if you will, or happiest or lightest was making our show and kind of doing that show because it was so weird and different because we also think, you know, we think very -- we don't think very highly of reality television. so the idea that we were going to put our story out there was like -- but at the same time, it was a different thing. it was real, more real. >> i read a survey that he was only second to clint eastwood in the male leads. >> the hottest dude in the planet. >> i mean, literally. >> i went to the stones concert, david bowie, i sat in the front row of the -- i mean, i went to the stones in the '70s. i mean, i had so much fun. zz top. we went everywhere. >> what was the moment, the most exciting thing that you ever did? >> i did some fun things with my ex-husband a

tatum and ryan o'neal right there.now. >> there you go. >> feel the love. >> talking about their relationship and the tough road to reconciliation. and really looking forward to spending some time. >> we are looking forward to that. >>> also coming up, we sent one of our "gma" dads, cameron mathison, on a little assignment to help ambush some fashion-challenged fathers. yes, they are out there. he got them ready for the big day sunday. and we'll show you the spectacular results. mom jean, there are dad jeans, too. and we'll try to -- >> these two dads are sharp. >> i'm not allowed to buy jeans on my own. no way. >> they don't trust you. >> no one here trusts me. >> it can go awry very quickly. so, we'll try to help. >>> right after the show, going to white house. >> love you guys. but i'm going to cut out early. i have an exclusive and intimate conversation coming up with president obama opening up about fatherhood. we know he has written about it. his father was absent for the majority of his life. but he's going to t

in the end, it's tatum o'neal, you were brought up in hollywood royalty.pretty crazy, fun life as well. tell me about the good stuff. >> first of all, it's funny that you would ask that. right now, honestly, the nicest, best time ever. and i think one of the funnest, if you will, or happiest or lightest was making our show and kind of doing that show because it was so weird and different because we also think, you know, we think very -- we don't think very highly of reality television. so the idea that we were going to put our story out there was like -- but at the same time, it was a different thing. it was real, more real. >> i read a survey that he was only second to clint eastwood in the male leads. >> the hottest dude in the planet. >> i mean, literally. >> i went to the stones concert, david bowie, i sat in the front row of the -- i mean, i went to the stones in the '70s. i mean, i had so much fun. zz top. we went everywhere. >> what was the moment, the most exciting thing that you ever did? >> i did some fun things with my ex-husband as well. we wen

ryan o'neal's latest project is ryan and tatum o'neal. it premiers on sundays. i've got to thank you because i would say most of the last 46 of my useless years of life, whenever i've needed to succeed with a woman, my tactic has normally been to put love story in the dvd or the video cassette, whatever it may have been at the time, and to sit back and let you work your magic. because no woman could resist a man after they've watched that. >> you've softened them up. >> to me it was like the ultimate weepy, the greatest of the genre. >> i would try that, only i ended up crying and that took away -- >> when was the last time? >> last night. no. i haven't seen it in a long time. it upsets me, actual zee why? >> well, it's -- i lost farrah to cancer and i just wonder how that all played out that way for me. one was such a big deal and so successful and then in real life it was just the opposite. it was just tragedy. >> when you look back at your life, i've watched a few of the episodes, it's a fascinating thing to watch because i've been to tatum, she's nearly my a

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o'neal. a fascinating way there that you let tatum make a second movie. she's an oscar winning movie star at this ridiculous age and life for you is never quite the same again. you, yourself, at the time have been propelled into the stratosphere after "love story." >> make my day. >> and "love story" was iconic for all of you a crazy period. when you look back on what happened, when did you start to see things just go wrong do you think? >> tatum and i were enormously close. perhaps too close. i can't say it was unhealthy because i didn't feel anything unhealthy about it. we went everywhere together. sometimes we were in one room for days. it was just the way it was. she was very smart. she had these strange childlike instincts that were always right about me and other women. she would go -- >> she says you're an incurable romantic. >> whatever that is i am. we had a blood tie but it was hard on me. it was harder and harder. she was possessive. she was strangling me. she was stranging me and then all of a sudden out of the midst came this blonde woman. sh

. >> you've heard what tatum o'neal says about her father. monday night ryan o'neal responds. and it's quite extraordinary. >> what kind of a man wouldn't be proud of someone who has made all these sacrifices and all this growth and wants me to -- to respect her, to love her? >> do you? >> yeah. i do. sh

o'neal's home? how the show with daughter tatum reveals the secret. >>> profane pilot. the open mic in midair that let everyone know exactly what he was thinking. >> it was a continuous stream of gays and grannies and grandes. i don't give a [ bleep ]. i hate 100% of their [ bleep ]. >> the cockpit pilot that has southwest scrambling to repair its reputation. >>> and good morning, everyone. let's get right to that breaking news about the arrest of whitey bulger. he was number two on the fbi's most wanted list, right behind osama bin laden. a global manhunt ended quietly in santa monica, california, last night. >> after 16 years. many want to know how he eluded the fbi for so long. well, he was helped, in part, by insiders at the agency. part of one of the worst corruption scandals ever to hit the fbi. and led the hill gang in boston for 25 years there in boston. >> and he was caught thanks to that public service launched by fbi with ads on "the view" and "regis & kelly," "dr. oz." we'll cover all of the angles, including the man bulger wanted to kill. we begin with pier

. >>> ryan o'neal blames tatum for farrah's cancer?age over robert ebert's harsh words about a celebrity's death. and kirstie alley, how much weight has she lost since "dancing" and brittany on the paparazzi. i'm kevin frazier. >> i'm christina mclarty. >> part two with music superstar sade as she opens up about her life away from music. i'm kevin frazier. >> i'm christina mclarty, brooke anderson is on assignment. we have the latest on lindsay lohan's first interview since her house arrest. first, tonight's inside story is on. >> yesterday, ryan dunn was killed in a ca