the daughter who lives in my robie also wrote a book and she describes being a daughter of obama, sr. and how hard it was to get him to pay attention to look at you and think and she tells the story how she goes to a private school in nairobi which she likes and periodically when the bills were due for the tuition a handful of girls, not many, would be called and told your bills are not paid, you need to go home and get the money. so she walks back, and goes to obama, sr. and says no problem, i will call my friends and get the check. well, he gets the check and she walks back to school but she knows the check is no good and in humiliation of that, it wears on her and then she goes back home until somehow she gets a thing in the end of a school administrator took pity on her but it was a series of humiliations and neglect. >> host: we are going to take a break now and then we will come back and talk a little bit about this in the obama story, this meeting of obama, the foster, reconnecting with his son in 1971. so we will be back in a moment. >>> what are you reading this summer? book

robi ludwig is a psychologist. joey jackson former prosecutor. dr. ludwig, how do you explain a mother's absence to three 5-year-olds? what to do you say to them? >> i think what you say is first, you want to underscore they are safe. and be honest without giving too much detail. you want to say something like we're looking for your mommy now. we have really good people trying to find her. you are safe. we are here for you. we'll let you know something as soon as . certainly not go into gory details before you have any information. you don't want to scare the kids. >> judge jeanine: let as talk about the fact the police are saying the husband cooperating. it is not like he's trying to make it look like he's helping. what does that tell you about him? >> he's disturbed the fact that he isn't covering up. if he were not involved, wouldn't he be happy police are looking for his wife? wouldn't he be happy there's television attention? not every case gets that kind of attention. clearly, he's adversarial. he's angry. he's annoyed and irritable. and he can

robi ludewig joins me. been in jail for three years. solitary confinement. going to walk out a free bird in a few hours. how does she handle this? >> case s very manipulative. i think she will use her new found celebrity and make the most out of her situation now and being known and famous or infamous. are she might look for an agent. going to look for money for a good deal and she is going to find somebody who can take care of her and give her money, whatever the case may be. this is a girl who knows how to look after number one. >> judge jeanine: how do you think that her parents feel about her being free. >> i'm sure on one level they are happy she didn't get the death penalty. after all, casey is their daughter. i'm sure the protective part of the parenting they love her on one level and don't want her to die. on another level she has really ruined their family. and wreaked havoc with their lives. i'm sure they are incredibly enraged and have a lot of conflicted feelings towards her. >> judge jeanine: do you think sheltersle ever patch that one up? >> i

robi ludwig is here to analyze some of her behavior.ey anthony as the prosecution delivers its closing arguments. >> counsel went to great lengths to connect as we already had, the duct tape in this case to the anthony home. on that, we agree. that duct tape on caylee anthony's face, came from the anthony home. getting past the fact that there is just no conceivable reason why anybody would put duct tape on the face of a dead child. i said it before, people don't make accidents look like murder. that's absurd. >> judge jeanine: all right, prosecutor linda drain-burdick had harsh words for casey. dr. ludwig, are you there? >> i am here. >> judge jeanine: okay. let me ask you, in response to the prosecution in closing arguments, what do you think the jury is thinking? >> it is so hard to figure out what the jury is thinking, because we done have the benefit of looking at their -- we don't have the benefit of looking at their faces and getting the sense of how they are reacting to the prosecution, defense, casey anthony. it is a little lik

roby done lee. she is going to walk out a free word in a few hours how does she handle this?lative. i think she is going to use her new found celebrity she is going to make the most out of her situation and become infamous. she may look for an agent look for money for a good deal and kwiend somebody that will make her comfortable. >> how do you think her parents feel about her being free? >> i am sure on one level they are glad she didn't get the death penalty. casey is their daughter. she love her on one level and don't want her to die. on another level she has really ruined her family and wreaked havoc with their lies. i am sure she is incredibly enraged. oo oh do you think they will ever patch that one up? >> as long as there's light there's hope. it is always possible. is it a guarantee? listen, it's going to be a very, very tough road. who can blame george for not wanting to for give his daughter. she basically annihilated his person in front of the whole entire world. i watch him in the courtroom. i got to tell you. i mean i watched him weep about his suicide. i watched

roby, a mother of two and wise beyond her years. mrs. roby: i thank you for those kind remarks. what an honor and privilege to be here on the floor of the u.s. house of representatives, representing alabama's second district, but also here just to embrace the very quote you began with, all great change in america begins at the dinner table. from president ronald reagan. as i sit here and i'm listening to my colleagues, i can't help but reflect back on my time as a child around the dinner table with my parents and my siblings and i am so grateful for the parents i had that encouraged debate but taught me the responsibility i have as an american and an individual and certainly i credit my wonderful parents with the -- for the opportunities i had to lead me to this place today to have the privilege of -- privilege and honor of representing alabama's second district. this week this congress is embarking on a historical path. we all understand the responsibility that we have and each of us brings to the table, as women who pump gas and go to the grocery store and see the rising cost

. >> reporter: but farmers like james roby, actually count on them to eat 100 metric tons of crop-damagingy badly damaged by some kind of caterpillar or warm. and that would have been potentially controlled by a bat that would have nailed the moth that would have laid the eggs on this leaf to begin with. >> reporter: that's not happening. because bats are in danger. a sprunk fungus has wiped out a million of them in 18 east coast states. it leaves a fungus on the bats nose, wings and body that eventually leads to starvation. the die-off is so greet and so fast the u.s. department of fish and wildlife has declared bats the number one mammal in crisis in this country. >> it's a female. >> reporter: one type, the little brown bat, is headed for the endangered species list. >> what was really our most common bat three years ago, now we're needing to learn an awful lot more about it in a hurry so we can do all we can to save it. >> reporter: this team from the u.s. and vermont fish and wildlife services is in a race against time. >> could be white nose syndrome. >> reporter: there is no cure fo

robi ludwig is a psychotherapist who recently explored the issue at length. >> yeah, we did. >> yourat perhaps they shouldn't be exposed to and in some cases they don't even know it's bad, it just seems like it's part of common language. >> there's different levels of cursing. there is a difference between when they curse in general and when they curse to the parents. either way you have to establish rules and you have great advice. the first one you say is if your child swears, don't overreact. >> right. i think it is important not to shame your child because you want to give your child the benefit of the doubt. you want to educate them first to let them know, swearing is not what you want to do, how we talk, impacts how people experience us. when kids are younger, you can do it in black and white terms, "we don't swear in this house." care.com did a survey which found that 90% of parents really do try to control their swearing in the home so that kids are not modeling poor behavior. >> of course they do because they want to fit in, they want to be cool and they want to look like gr

his test brings a sense of relief to the families of the 1998 bombings and my robie and in october 2010 psychiatry carson announced the dual track approach to somalia after careful consultation and review and also i think to the advice in this committee and others the approach to somalia taking into consideration somalia past and present house well as challenges and strengths we continue to support the peace process the transitional federal government its national security forces and the african union mission to somalia. however, we recognize there are large pockets of stability that have narrow u.s. engagement and broaden the outreach to improve greater engagement with somalia and regional and local al-shabaab groups throughout south and central somalia. we recognize the need to encourage grassroots support for stability in somalia and are reaching out to be a desperate communities and civil societies to foster dialogue and peaceful reconciliation. in addition we continue to do everything we can to provide urgently needed humanitarian assistance. thanks to the dedication and sacrifice

let martha roby come up from north carolina. >> thank you all so much for being here today. i just want to start off saying, every one of these freshmen people standing here, we all come from different states and different parts of the country. we represent different districts, but we believe and we share common beliefs, and we firmly believe that washington and the leadership in washington has been on a reckless spending spree for far too long. second, we believe that the mountain of debt that we have incurred, we have accrued threatens the prosperity of the future of this country. and thirdly, we believe that our job is to change washington. that is what we were sent here to do, to cut spending and to make fundamental changes on the way we spend taxpayers' dollars. these are fiercely held beliefs and we will not waiver. at this moment we face three options. we have speaker boehner's plan which contains significant spending cuts over the next 10 years. then, we have senator reid's plan which is fundamentally a budget gimmick that will not deliver real savings. or we can do

. >> which is why you are here, robi. why are we doing this?g to the study, these teens are now considered the fashion style experts. and the danger is what happens if you're really dressing too young for your age, does it look desperate? because that's where the question -- >> it sort of goes deeper, in addition to what you said, even deeper because the study found that, in fact, a daughter has high interest -- even with a dauth whole has high interest in fashion and mature, she's still less likely to see her mother as a role model for these things. >> we might. we're so celebrity focused that really these teens are looking to celebrities in order to get their fashion inspiration. and the mothers are saying, oh, my gosh, my teenage daughters are really hip, they look great. i like that. i think women of all ages want to be relevant. we don't want to get to a certain age and we have to look dead. >> are we saying, though, to our daughters, also saying that they don't want to look mature, either? >> i think it is a saying. >> i think there is a