this woman was uh febded, but -- offended, and at some point you can say, sorry you were offended. part of interacting with people is you could get offended. >> 100%. as the conversation went on i think of my mother-in-law who sends me chain e-mails and it is easier to take the e-mail and send them back ha, ha, ha and say thanks. you have to suck it up. >>- q. i part of the reason it happens is because at a certain point when you are about to create a lawsuit, you sit down with a lawyer and they say, write down anything and everything you could perceive as bag harassing -- being harassing and offensive. and maybe she didn't think it was a big deal. >> it would be interesting to know if and i haven't heard she had. when she got the e-mail did she respond and say, i find this -- don't send these things to me. i find this offensive. it seems that's how you denned that. -- that's how you end that. >> have i done that to you. >> whether you -- when you say offended you really mean aroused. i cracked your code. like anyone who knows you you defend everybody. >> i usually am. i am usually