. >> ms. diaz counsels teens through a program called outreach academy. she teaches them to know the signs of abuse, which aren't always physical. >> teen dating violence is all different types of abuse. they intimidate you. they call you names. there's also threatening. "if you leave me, i'm gonna kill myself." also texting and calling and, you know, "i want to know where you are all the time." telling you what to wear. >> when it comes to physical abuse, television may be to blame. >> it probably is more acceptable for a girl to hit a boy, because, like, a lot of boys have, like, training in, like, self-defense. >> there is definitely gender bias when it comes to our young boys, when it comes to domestic violence. >> we don't teach our girls, "you're not supposed to hit boys," unless it's your younger brother. >> i'm not sure my mom would buy that. in any case, a healthy relationship is when you and your partner can agree to disagree. >> for example... >> "i'm not gonna get in trouble or get yelled at if i have different ideas." "i can wear whatever i w