dariel watts. i'm now going to get phone calms. >> these are your first loves?e ones where you go, oh, my god, you know. why? she just said hello to me. you know? then from there, of course, i married the second one. you know, that was brenda. i married the third. that was diane. >> you married two of the three people you've been properly in love with. >> yeah. but you have to understand, it takes a lot for me to jump the broom. of course, now that i've been in hollywood for a minute, i must tell you that it's gotten out of hand here a little bit. >> well said. >> you think a little bit more before you say i love you. or, as i say to people every day, every time i say i love you, i lose a house. but then -- but now, you know, that cinderella love is going to be absolutely something that -- that comes along that you're looking for. you really are looking for it. >> what have you really learned about love? >> that you have to throw yourself into it. i love that word, "fall" in love. if you're not falling in love, it means you let go. you have to let go. you can't