there is a woman that we worked with who owns a company called kendo are treasures. k --andahar treasures. many of the women cannot leave their homes and they give her beautiful and the press likes cars and jewelry that they have made. she sells them and returns the proceeds to these women. the couple of years ago, when she for started working with us, she told us the story of a woman in the most difficult problems and afghanistan. she returned some money one day to a woman living there who literally never left her home. the woman grabbed her hand and told her story. my husband never respected may. my husband barely ever looked me in the eye. ever since i started working with you and making a little bit of income, he suddenly talks to me. he even asks my opinion on things. just the other day, in a submissive way, he said i think these girls tools -- girls' schools cropping up are terrible but i think i should ask your opinion whether we should send them to school. she told us the story and did she say yes? she said she was much smarter she said to him, i will -- i ne