. >> reporter: in patty ann's gym in kennel brook, new jersey, there are plenty of rules like no cellhones and no facebook when the girls travel even to communicate with their moms and dads. >> we are not allowed to talk to them. we are not allowed to have any contact with them what soever >> that's even when we're at the competition with them. >> even a prisoner gets a phone call. >> reporter: and these parents who pay over $1800 a year to have their girls coached, well, they are even kept in the dark literally when it comes to watching the girls practice. >> i wish we could peek a little bit. >> reporter: how do you feel about that? spending all this money and dedicating all this time and you don't know what's happening? >> i'm paying all this money and i want to occasionally see what i'm getting for that dwindling checkbook. >> three, four, five, six. >> reporter: but behind that curtain patty uses a sharp tongue and take no prisoners attitude to whip her squad into a winning team. >> is this going to affect me? good, then get rid of that and let's go. don't spit blood on the mat.