commodity me marry me to marty more christine barker marry my one year four but otherwise we will kill you. how can she. get murder you work or why you hold with a kid there's a practice called bad which is the use of women and girls as compensation for crimes so what you sometimes see happening if has been for instance of rape or murder. they'll be a traditional council gathering of elders and one of the ways that they can try to resolve this is rather than. punishing the perpetrator of the rape or the murder they'll take a girl from one family the perpetrators family and they'll give that girl usually in marriage to the victim's family. and kind of to hold until the well you see how difficult it is to obtain justice because you are a woman it hurts you because you know that you can't do anything to change the situation and this is because society is in the hands of men and mad the house. at this point the concept of justice is still nonexistent in court. it's very hard for women particularly conservative areas of the country to seek help and sadly if a young girl or a woman goes to t