. >> sounds like one for dr. abt's a question we ask ourselves from time to time are you normal are you nuts? dr. ablow is here to answer your questions. >> the first one, a lot of girls get this from parents. how do i get my mother to stop nagging me about when i am going to get married. i am 29 years old but my mom is worried because they are married. she is not nuts but she is intrusive. i have a quick antidote to identify three things you have identified about your mom lovingly she has been working on counseling with your dad or a fitness regimen. say listen i to focus on the marriage thing when you attend to these three things. that is likely to stop your mom from being inclusive in your life. >> picture frames is this nuts. >> it's way normal. human beings for whatever reason they are tremendously interested in cemetery. have you ever heard of a man with half a beard? it would be disturbing instinctively disturbing. stop using it as framing maybe you have a gift at looking at cemetery. think about art and arch