i had to call up colin firth himself and tell him -- >> you asked mr. darcy? >> he was dead.did have to ask him if he was sitting down and had someone with him. >> did he? >> yes. >> so to that end, you wanted to give an opportunity for bridget as a single mother -- she is older and has children. but why not just get a divorce? please, you could have kept him alive. >> but mark darcy, even though he was wearing a reindeer sweater when she met him, is the quintessential gentleman. he's a decent man. and that's why everyone cares about him so much. he would never leave her with two small children. and so, as i said, his memory lives on in the new book. >> one of the things i think many of us have related to and women have related to, this notion that bridget is struggling and in the new book is struggling to be a perfect mom yet struggles to be herself, maintain herself. and living up to the standards that other moms seemingly have created of this perfect image of mom. is that something that you struggled with, as well? >> yeah. i think that they -- the bar is pretty high for w