jean carroll and matthew hussey. >> you are our favorite odd couple.you guys on. >> you're our favorite odd couple. >> thank you. thank you for coming off the mountain to be with us. >> chris writes in, what should you do when you want to see and address issues in your marriage but your spouse thinks everything is fine but the whole situation is making you miserable. what to do? >> i think you should get out of the house, get out of the neighborhood, pack a picnic, a loaf of bread, a jug of wine, head out, go for a hike, spread a blanket in the grass and then tell him what you're thinking. not what you're feeling, tell him what you're thinking, let him hear it. if all goes well, you can seal the deal on the blanket. >> matthew? >> okay. for me, the tone of this question says it all. when she says, i'm miserable, and he doesn't know it, that doesn't suggest to me a problem in the relationship that's a woman too afraid to confront the problem. and the problem with that is those types of people -- >> she's like -- >> forget the wine. forget the picnic, fo