is it fair to say that justin is a perfectionist?involved for it. you know? it's really just boom, boom, done. 16 hours in the garage and one take timberlake. >> he got together with one of his friends and then created the song "gone." >> you're gone. ♪ you're gone gone gone ♪ >> reporter: justin's writing skills were getting noticed by the biggest names in the industry like michael jackson. >> michael's people came and, hey, i think michael wants to record that record. i looked to justin and said, you're not giving that record away." i knew what that record meant to him as a writer to finally get some, you know, respect making a statement to say, i'm a writer too. >> we are very, very excited to be here. >> reporter: in 2002, justin launched the solo career that would define his next decade. ♪ >> everybody was kind of figuring out, what are we going to do for the next six months and justin just kind of tapped me and said, i know what i'm going to do. i've had this music inside me quite a while and i will take this time and go make a

melissa: if you are below average that would be fantastic, but they'alking about the perfectionists andt may be trying to be perfect a the time is reallkilling productivity in holding back. >> the samples thathey gave for more of someone who as obsessiv compulsive disorder rather than someone who is actually trying to be a perfectionist. if your someone who is an entrepreneur in bnging that idea and you're willing to risk loss or gain from untypically financial ain. after readinthat article it did not make sense. something to strive for with the knowledge to know that you will not get there. melissa: you don't think a lot of people are at harvard business school obsessive compulsive. i have news for you. your biggest worry. >> tried to hard. >> a little bit. a little bit >> thank you, by the way. >> harvard business school. harvard usiness school is telling people to b average. really that is number one. harvard business school, harvard busine school is saying you shld be average. melissa: maybe by leaning in you're making yourself miserable and making everyone aroundou miserable and no

he was such a perfectionist about it.god. doesn't have vowels in the name. the town is named -- we were out on this -- and we are in a hunting lodge, and so i got, i got there, i'm thinking, i could not be further away. so i went on this walk, out on this glacier, and i didn't bring my ipod. so i just thought -- i will blank out for a little bit. not worry about hollywood and show business. and at the end all of this ice, isolation. really beautiful, and meditative, and walking along. and then i see out on the -- a little dot, walking toward me. offen t ein the glacier. getting closer, closer. and it is a guy who walks up to me. it is sean penn. he and i are the only, he is sean penn. he goes, hey, patton. i go, hey, sean. i met him before. and then we talked about -- new york for like half an hour. and, yeah, then heap go goes, su back at the lodge. he went walking off. >> jimmy: must have been a hallucination. >> it is that thing, i realize he also had flown him out there. and, it's like -- and he is amazing in the movi

. >> is it fair to say that justin is a perfectionist. >> he is a perfectionist, but there's no work16 hours in the garage, way, one-take timberlake. >> he got together with one of his friends and they created the song "gone." ♪ you're gone ♪ you're gone >>> his writing skills were getting noticed by the biggest names in the industry, like michael jackson. >> michael's people came and they said, hey, i think michael wants to record that record. i looked at justin and i was like, you're not giving that record away. i knew how important that was to him and what it meant for him as a writer to finally get some respect, making a statement to say i'm a writer too. >> we're very, very excited to be here. >> in 2002, he launched the solo career that would define his next decade. ♪ >> everybody was kind of figuring out what will we do for the next six months? and justin tapped me and he said i've had this music inside me for quite a while. i'm going to take this time and make a record. ♪ you were my sun >>> that album "justified" was hod enough to land his solo act at the super bowl halftime

shake my hand >> keteyian: why is saban such a perfectionist?es on another football field in a small west virginia mining town. here, saban's father, nick, sr, started a pop warner team called the black diamonds. today, the black diamonds are still playing, on the same field, only it's now named for nick, sr., a local legend. nick remembers how his father's long, demanding practices always ended on a hill in the back of the end zone. >> saban: and it was like a three-level hill. and it's almost straight up, and we... we would line up at the bottom of that hill. and that was our conditioning. we'd have to sprint up that hill. and it was so dark, he couldn't tell whether you made it to the top. so there was a row of trees up there. you had to bring a leaf back to him, prove that you made it to the top. >> keteyian: nick grew up in a coal camp with just nine streets. his dad owned this service station down the road. nick started working for him at age 11. >> saban: if we washed a car when i worked for him at the service station and it was not done

. >> reporter: she is a hand-on perfectionist, because the stakes couldn't be hypigher.st ones are amazinam. >> reporter: of course this is a struggling pop stare with a big difference. >> reporter: you are not having to wait tables in the evening? >> i know. >> reporter: she parlayed her foreign fame into a guess jeans contract. ♪ as well as a spot in the open of the nfl's thursday night football. ♪ come on come on ♪ ♪ come to a party >> reporter: how american. the pr blitz is working. but the goal is still some way off. taking a bollywood hhair heroine and molding her into an american. it's not that much of a stretch. she is familiar with american culture. >> here we go. >> miss india. >> reporter: she went to high school here in the u.s. but went home to india where she quickly became a beauty queen and crowned miss world, 2000. >> i had some major things in school it really got to me. >> like school yard bullying. >> a one girl who hated me. because of you i am famous. i should find you on facebook. she was really evil to me. she hated me. and she and her ten girls w

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quality and very difficult circumstances it is forever busy taking care of something that all was a perfectionist it that the fiction instead. every da station has canceled the special program about money which they were working on it i thought i'd re offend and commitment to the platoon the knees. it's very important that charlie's go to war zones. because they don't go there. they want reports about what happens is that the patients and so it's very important for us to know what happens in zoe's was owen's rsi has received messages of sympathy from him round the wild. french foreign ministry don't have is is that it expressed the government's contaminants is. all falling into killing off tuesday french msn money the government of president paul sloane is vowing to increase security in northern areas of money. the current french un in law in the dutch contingent in the country's ill equipped to patrol the boston area which is in which owns the mission continued to run for the cats all of the ferry. following a brutal double murder there are no question marks over the security and keep down in no

in other words, he was a perfectionist and was very critical of himself. >> brown: that led to depressionto therapy, you write about his work with the famous therapist erickson. >> right. rockwell moved to stockbridge in 1953 in fact to begin therapy with eric erickson. stockbridge, massachusetts, is seen as the quintessential new england town of little shops and grazing cows. >> brown: and norman rockwell. >> and norman rockwell. but when he moved there it was a psychoanalytic center of the united states because he the -- there was a center there and it drew a lot of prominent doctors. >> brown: you said he was a perfectionist and you say many people in the art world didn't take him seriously, was that part of it? how did he see himself? did he see himself as an artist? as a fine artist? as a great artist? >> he saw himself as an illustrator and he worshipped the illustrateors who came before him, most of whom we don't know today such as howard pyle, painter of pirates who's been largely forgotten. but he wanted to bill himself into what he saw as the great tradition of drawn illustratio

very difficult circumstances that he was forever busy taking care of something that all was a perfectionist it that the fiction is to honor a fine fronds threefold since the station has counseled the money paid down there working on knitting has reaffirmed its commitment to reporting the news. with a nice family in africa are flying has been receiving messages of sympathy. foreign ministry on friday its byzantine text responses can get in says. kosovo or allow the elections were rocked by violence. masked men attacked a polling station smashing windows and tearing of voting material. i was just one eve and underscoring the country strained relations with serbia. it's the first time voters in all of kosovo were able to choose local councilors and mayors since the country gained independence from serbia five years ago kathy clifford explains. strewn across this polling station. as for me only. and of course their way into the polling station in states that to an extent the small one older woman was seriously injured. this is one of the attackers his chair with a chair all the cool we heard th

the grassy knoll area that's a lot of people here in a different account from what we were told perfectionist snipers have tried to replicate lee harvey oswald shots from the book depository couldn't do it no one has ever been able to do that to this day howard hunt deathbed confession said we killed j.f.k. oswald had cia ties he was working in a coffee shop a stone's throw away from a covert action cordon. for the cia. there's so many more i mean i'll just say one more of the house select commission on assassinations actually concluded a couple decades later through forensic evidence that there was indeed more shots and that oswald was not the lone perpetrator we're talking about an actuary aggression all yet they never really investigated this after the warren commission can know what you know and hours after the event the warren commission actually just made its conclusions i mean and they just kind of followed through so they already had their conclusions just already preconceived and so they fit the evidence to kind of fit around those conclusions are saying it's just a really unfortunat

the perfectionism is interesting are all great artist perfectionists? probably otherwise want to keep them alone in their studio all those hours? writers to absolutely. [laughter] . . for which he is most known and who was the mother of all three of the rockwell sums and i think in many ways it was kind of a prospect in the sense that we just didn't really say too much about her. he was distracted and flown lee and living in vermont and there wasn't a lot to do their. and was an incredible hardship on her and she did take up drinking which presumably made her feel less visible. i guess that there are different reasons but it was a very difficult marriage and she was incredibly sympathetic figure. and do a little bit of writing but who never could get it done for whatever reason. and it was almost like the classic and the ambitions of those of her husband. as far as husbands go it was a situation >> i would like to hear you say something about incredible optimism of the work as opposed to what has been discussed here about his own sadness. >> the optimis

>> we tend to be very perfectionists.perfect instead of focusing on the passion, the fun and why you're doing this. >> it's hard sometimes to see the fun because you know that you have a deadline. you know your boss needs it by wednesday. finding the joy in that isn't always easy. >> it's not always easy. it's about your interpretation. if you have a big presentation, you can focus on, oh, my gosh, i'm never going to get it done. i'm not going to sleep. that would be the distress. but good stress can be like it's going to take a lot of time and energy but it will be a good way to showcase to my boss how good i am. >> go on. >> no, i was just going to say -- i don't remember. everybody's anticipations are different and our priorities are really, really different. i remember the other day i had to rush home to get on the telephone. i was going to be late for an interview but i ended up passing right by my neighbor, who has been battling cancer and i said, you know what? i made the wrong choice. my choice should always be th

perfectionists are often high achooe achieve achievers.ng and maybe we don't reach that? >> well, you feel that if you don't reach that goal, then is there something wrong? am i not good enough? is there something that i should be doing better and you never feel like you get caught up. that's the part that you saw with monica. it's an expectation. people have these expectations and they want you to give back and they're not going to give back all the time. >> what's the line, though, between saying i have great attention to detail, i like things being the right way and maybe having a problem with perfectioni perfectionism? >> when it's really making you unhappy. when you're not able to step back and appreciate your accomplishments or life in general. it's just this desire for things to be perfect is really getting in the way of everything that you do. your relationship. >> so there are ways you can maybe help manage this. >> right. >> first of all, just make a schedule. >> absolutely. it might sound crazy but make a schedule so you do thin

i was trying to be a perfectionist last year same way. >> raiders host tennessee on sunday as season marches on klabing most likely ticking down on his time in silver and black bothered by hamstring injury. it's grit. 80 yard burst last week. jennings back up mcfadden but replacing for listening hall. raiders with don't climb back up to the 500 mark. >> this big gym for football team. we need to be able to come output back-to-back week together. tho thought we had a good week of practice last week. played well. need to be able to do the same this week in front of home crowd. >> thursday night football. jackson fired up. former ram up and over. atlanta up 7 nothing. mickings of trp game for the saints. short week with seattle coming up next but drew breeze the neck is fine despite the head. hits jimmy and brings down the goal post. okay. had to get the level out. to reset the goal post. saints hold on to we know 17-1 17-13. giants firmly believe the path is paved by great pitching. they resigned lefty reliever 3 years 13 million dollars. 36-year-old lefty and 69 appearance this year w

indian theselization, and stories of radical christians transforming native people into religious perfectionistsmodels arehristian virtue, actually just being eaten up in europe. >> why in europe? >> there is a real use of native americans, then they in which native americans have captured the european mind. exotic people of a different color and kind who both perplex and intrigue. so you get a lot of conversations about the origins of native people, where they come from. there is a tremendous attempt to reconcile their existence in the americas with biblical narrative , and then to mission eyes them. >> these people who are residents from these universities from dartmouth to harvard are ministers. and they have slaves. >> they often have slaves and they are often indian missionaries. the first president of dartmouth had spent much of his life as an indian missionary, but he is also running a side business buying and selling people for labor, so that enslaved black people were part of his life's work. >> how did you feel about this, craig steven wilder, being an dartmouth yourself, teaching, doi

>> i'm a perfectionist and safety is number one priority. it was always the number one priority in designing a car. because i drive it. my kids are in it. my friends are in it. it's the number one priority. our car was tested by -- >> "consumer reports," safest car on the road. by a longshot. >> yes. the model s when it was tested by the federal government as well, it got lowest probability of injury of any car ever tested in history. in other words, you could not drive a safer car. and if there was something we thought would negatively affect the safety, we would immediately do a recall. in fact, there was something earlier this year, which was basically a bracket. there were no injuries. there were no even -- there were no near injuries, but we discovered a slight issue maybe with one of the rear seat belt brackets. we recalled all the cars and replaced the bracket. >> got it. let me ask you a different question. i think of you as an entrepreneur, someone who likes to operate your business and think about the future and what the future sho

. >> rose: warren being some kind of perfectionist. >> that's why jack calls him the pro. >> rose: (laughs) >> rose: going to go see the pro. this book is called "a story lately told: coming of age in ireland, london and new york." volume two of this memoir which will include jack and her late husband the great sculptor and all of that will be coming soon. when will volume two be, a year or two? >> a year probably. >> rose: have you finished yet? >> not yet. i'm still writing. i'm sort of on a first pass. >> rose: will it be easier for you now that you've done this? >> i don't think so. i think volume two will probably be more difficult. >> because? >> because more people are alive and that's more people to possibly hopefully not offend. one of the big fears i have that when i went into this was hurting somebody and god forbid i do anything like that. so -- and that doesn't mean that i'm just setting out to be kind. i'm -- i'm very -- it's very important to me that these books are about me, what was going on with me and i don't want to cast aspersions on anyone else. >> rose: that's exactl

. >> rose: he was a perfectionist. >> absolutely. >> rose: and he was constantly asking questions. that is really serious question. you know better than most. what has been missing at microsoft? and, two, would it have been missed if bill was there? >> well, those are imponderables. it's -- i think that the set of tasks that microsoft has engaged in the company has been so large that they've -- it's been hard for them to be as consistently innovative. the other thing is frankly the things that they do well have been maturing. >> rose: that's true. that's very true. >> the for instance between google and microsoft is largely that search and android phones are on the up swing where being the best company in the growing market is great. microsoft's core markets have been mature. they haven't been growing that fast. >> rose: there's also this: sometimes timing is important. at microsoft they were looking at tablets and voice recognition and a whole range of things. >> before any of these guys. >> rose: before anybody. before anybody. $and apple was looking at smart phones before they w

very bright guy, very demand in perfectionist. he's the one who developed the sports here before he became unbearable in the wall, like you would imagine in a movie in the 1930s. but he has these ideas of grandeur. anthony spilotro was a childhood associated sub three. according to blunt force that, tony was set out to the chicago mob to look over their interest here in las vegas. according to law enforcement, tony killed 26 people, murdered them. i was always have faced by fbi agents and local police said your client killed 26 people. how can you sleep at night? is that how come you haven't been able to put in jail if he killed 26 people? i never got a jury answer on that one. unfortunately he was killed and buried in a cornfield in indiana. >> host: worry his lawyer? >> guest: i was his lawyer for many years. he never spent one day in jail except one time i was trying to case, representing kansas city in a trial wasn't over. tony was arrested for murder. he waited until i got back. post the mr. goodman, is there such thing as th

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>> wow, that's -- the short answer is he's a perfectionist and he has everybody in that organizationlion football program. he sets that standard and expects everybody to live up to it. i think the mental approach is very different than any other program in the country. he really teaches these kids how to play under pressure. >> from bear bryant to nick saban. >> i'm so happy to see you. >> i'm so happy to be here and watch this. >> everybody's excited about their team but i've never seen anything -- >> i could talk for about 20 minutes on that. first of all, you grew up in alabama, i grew up in alabama. there's not a lot going on. people make fun of your state unfairly. but football. and in blaalabama we do footbal right. alabama wins the right way with the team, tough defense, the nation's defense and team over individual, and nick saban is whipping the way bear bryant did. if bear bryant was around, he would be proud of his team, not because he's winning but because of the way he's doing it. >> give us your best roll tide, jan. >> roll tide! >> looking forward to sunday. good to se

. >> reporter: the younger rosen said his dad say perfectionist when eating out. >> the service and theripe like to pursue their passion. for dad, if you eat well, you'll live well. >> reporter: these days, the solo food diphenom has been getting a little more attention than usual, thanks to a tip by a neighbor to "the new york times" he's become quite the eligible bachelor. are you getting picked up a lot more by young ladies? >> and offered many things, believe me. >> reporter: what do they offer? >> they offer a good time. you know. yes, they do. >> reporter: are you looking for a more serious relationship? >> i am, i am, yes. >> reporter: you're on the market? >> i am, exactly, right. >> reporter: here's to you. for "cbs this morning," michelle miller, new york. >> god bless him. >> he's putting it out there that he's on the market. >> exactly. he orders the fish. he has his wine. is that the key to -- >> being 104 able goal out every night for dinner. >> i like it. i like it. go mr. rosen. >> go mr. rosen. >> that does it for us. up next, your local news. ready? happy birthday! it'

. >> what's it like working with a perfectionist? >> it's hard. it's a lot of work.omeone like her. all of the things that i complained about or were annoyed about, you know, her over-the-top love and commitment to everything she does. how much time she spends giving people -- she just gives people herself. and her time. and so, i mean, she's an incredible person. it was a pleasure to work with. and adds a lot of responsibility on you to make sure that you deliver. i think i made the right choices. and i feel we did that. >> you just said it very well. i felt like you gave 200%. and it was really inspiring, as a woman, just to watch you. you weren't a dancer. you clearly had dance experience. are you surprised at the growth you had as a dancer? >> i loved it as a kid, growing up, to reconnect to something that i loved, like a passion like that, that immediate made me feel a certain kind of confidence. just added so much. i mean, i agree so much with him as my teacher. he pushed me to new levels, that i mabel wouldn't have known how to do. and i'm really grateful, you

>> wow, that's -- the short answer is he's a perfectionist and he has everybody in that organizationrd and expects everybody to live up to it. i think the mental approach is very different than any other program in the country. he really teaches these kids how to play under pressure. >> from bear bryant to nick saban. >> i'm so happy to see you. >> i'm so happy to be here and watch this. >> everybody's excited about their team but i've never seen anything -- >> i could talk for about 20 minutes on that. first of all, you grew up in alabama, i grew up in alabama. there's not a lot going on. people make fun of your state unfairly. but football. and in blamealabama we do football right. alabama wins the right way with the team tough defense, the nation's defense and team over individual, and nick saban is whipping the way bear bryant did. if bear bryant was around he would be proud of his team not because he's winning but because of the way he's doing it. >> give us your best roll tide jan. >> roll tide! >> looking forward to sunday. good to see you both. you can see armen's profile of

>> well short answer is he's a perfectionist.ll program, he sets that standard and expects everybody to live up to it. the really interesting part with nick is the mental approach to the game with alabama is very different than any other program in the country. he really teaches these kids how to play under pressure. >> from bear bryant to nick saban, jan, how big is football? >> loving it. >> i'm so happy to see you. >> i'm so happy to be here and watch this piece. >> we go to college campuses and everybody's excited about their team but i've never seen anything the way you guys do it. >> i could talk for about 20 minutes. first of all, you grow up in alabama, i grew up in alabama, there's not a lot going on. people make fun of your state unfairly. but football. and in alabama we do football right because of the legendary bear bryant with that tradition of excellence and the way alabama wins the right way, with the team tough defense, tenacious defense and team over individual. and nick saban is winning the way bear bryant did.

the perfectionism is interesting are all great artist perfectionists? probably otherwise want to keep them alone in their studio all those hours? writers to absolutely. [laughter] . . for which he is most known and who was the mother of all three of the rockwell sums and i think in many ways it was kind of a prospect in the sense that we just and the us sense that he did not w say too much about her. almost seemed like a of ath classic housewife with her own ambitions.as and i do see, he was extra remote as far as husbands go and it was a very difficult situation. >> one more question. >> i would like to hear you say something about the incredible optimism of the work from what has been discussed of his own andism sadness. >> the optimism of the work? that is the reason we still respond because we care about one another such as the doctor and a the pediatrician.ize a doctor here doesn't ask his patient to fill out health forms or signed away his life.es [laughter] or not to pay before shel leaves but sinking of the of little girl who is worried about th

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. ♪ >> i am a perfectionist so it's hard with kids. >> there's definitely days when i have my doubts react with situations. >> i wish i knew how to, i guess, just calm myself before speaking to them. >> i wish i was better at taking time to sit down and just listen more to my child. >> i wish i was more confident in being a mom. >> i'm not the most patient person in the world. >> patience. >> patience is far and away probably the biggest struggle. >> i just want them to know how much i love them. ♪ >> my mom is totally awesome. >> she's fun to snuggle with. >> pretty, funny. >> she is unique. that's why i love her so much. >> we go on dates together. like we go shopping. >> she loves me a lot. >> i have a lot of favorite things about my mom. >> we like to watch movies together and cuddle and stuff. >> we go to church together. we volunteer together. >> she's like my heart, i guess you could say because she's that close to me. >> my favorite thing is to jump on with my mom. that's my most favorite thing. to go up high. >> we get ice cream or something and like go to the nail salon and