places where a hard-working salary man can have a beer or saki. or many beers and many sakis.rilliantly with alcohol. >> please. yes. >> tomika brings me to one of them, daitoro, to meet some friends. kusaia, grilled fermented fish, followed by skewers of beef intestine and chicken. this place is known for its motsunabe, intestine stew with miso. so we order some of that as well. this is naga, invited along to translate. naga runs a custom service company, but he also teaches pole dancing for men. then there's this man, one of the best known and most respected practitioner of art of ropes, of beautiful knots, of what we call for lack of a better word, bondage. so how big is the sadomasochistic community? how many people are active participants? >> 100,000 people. >> a lot? >> a lot. >> this is shubare, translation, to bind. it makes things more confusing, for those a precise takeaway, comfortable reaction to what looks pretty disturbing, tomika ripping, burning and generally abusing men, enthusiastically reverses roles in her long time relationship with kajame. >> does it hurt