we are here at the national press club with jennifer mong mom garden and we are talking about redo. tell us about your book trade. >> i would say this look is a feel good book about one of the most tranquil things that has happened politically in last couple of decades. marriage is to be a reliable wedge issue and now it's pretty much a done deal and is continuing, that momentum is continuing so to have the book. i don't often have this happy of the story and it's a meditation on marriage because i'm a feminist writer. i have thought a lot about marriage. i have thought about marriage as a married person i have a lot of issues with it. i think it has historically a lot of complexity for a lot of this for people who care about social justice but also a lot of value and that is something us tried to grapple with in the book and the american leaders if they came to terms with what it means to have this language of love and commitment extends to everyone and what that means to us as americans it's a feel good book. >> it is a composed of essays by these american leaders or how did you p