. >> i remember debra canon did a thing a couple of years ago. don't quote me exactly. she basically said that men interrupt women a lot. you see this all of the time. >> all of the time. >> i don't care if you're at a cocktail party but they will chit chat and the woman will talk and a man will interrupt her and the woman almost never interrupt. >> that's right. >> should she interrupt? >> if she feels comfortable into doing that. >> is that third sex behavior? >> you can be a woman and interrupt a guy. guys don't mind being interrupted as long as your point is congruent with his point. you can't but is and -- interrupt and change the subject and say we're leaving this out. you're not thinking about this and women will often do because their minds, they see holistically, they seeing the bigger picture. men tend to focus on one thing and if you interrupt and you're like focused on the same point, you interrupt, the guy goes okay, i will listen to that. >> all right. >> if you have something else, wait a second. you're changing the subject. >> we're out of time. true or