and her feanssi allen is like a picture postcard of the perfect man. >> the most compelling interviewsg time. she's a quilter and she said in the quilting community, they started a thing called go fund me.org to help her raise money to help bury her loved ones, she's raised enough so she can help others pay for the burials of theirs as well. great interview. >> very moving and thank you for bringing that up. bob? >> i had to fight eric because he wanted to do it, too, and i won out. on behalf of a "the five," happy birthday, nancy pelosi. you turn 74 today, and you have been a great former speaker, a great member of congress, and all of us on "the five," eric included, wish you a very happy birthday. >> no cake? >> no, i would worry what happened. >> i would eat the cake. okay, so i'm up next. and my puerto rican sister from another mother, j. lo, this is like secrets of the green room. dana and i are hanging out, and she said, did you hear that j. lo song? it's so stupid? i love you, papi, and i'm like, what? then i'm like, what are you talking about? it's papi. take a listen. ♪ >> sh