bec becca, i want to get you back into the conversation.child relationships through story telling. >> story telling is essential. share stories with kids when they are little, that everything you do is aplaysing. that you can do no wrong. it is important to show your kids that you're fallible and learned from failure. instead of telling the fabulous stories, tell the stories not in the droning on way, but in an empathetic way. you're all for it if they fail. >> dr. kang how important is it to encourage a child's weakness? it's a little bit selfish on the part of the parent, they think they know who they want you to be and push you in that direction but do they need to stop and take a breath and figure out what's unique with the child? >> sure lisa. i worked with children over the years and what makes us motivated and uniqueness is something that really drives a child. we all want to follow our passions and our brains are hard-wired differently. there are reasons why some are interested in the arts and some interested in the in science. moth