host of "so popular" julia turner. awesome to see you all.ring of domestic tasks and the notion of choreplay. what was your roweaction to this? >> i texted my girlfriends and i was like please i swear to never sleep with a man who thinks chores are the incentive of us getting into bed. do we think they are that basic? >> like fold laundry. julia, there's a treat by someone who says the use of the word choreplay filled me with righteous rage. we don't tend to men with sex so they act like human beings. you should be doing the laundry anyway, maybe. >> the whole point is the household load of responsibilities should be shareded 50/50. if you suggest that the woman needs to incentivize man to do the laundry with sex or whatever else you're suggesting that it's still her responsibility. >> right. and i think all of it goes -- at that said, there is still an unequal division of labor if any relationship, right? i guess part of me wonders whether as sort of disgusting or distasteful as the notion of incentivizing what half of a relationship to do s