so now nizolek at the way this current generation of troops are valued it is very heartwarming as a mother. i think it is a great thing. . . to me it's very frightening, so here you are going to raise your children in one place for their, most of their childhood. talk about that transition. >> guest: i thought that's what i wanted. i thought i wanted to know what it felt like to be able to have stuff i looked in my basement and not have to pack one box of my special things every time we moved and there is a part of that that is very comforting and i know who my mechanic is. i know who mike doctor is that i get in trouble all the time because i don't wave when people drive by. when you live in a place where you'd don't expect to know anybody you are not looking at anybody's car so when you live in small-town america everybody knows everybody. the joke is don't come into my house in the dark because i do miss moving and i do miss being in a place as the one of the ways i would cope with that is i would move furniture. i'm not talking about moving just the couch into the corner. i might turn