dr. stacy dunn and a professor at the college and thanks for being here. this is hard because you are a mom of a little girl. a mom of little girls and we know it's an issue and we back a fine line with this. what is the best advice? >> we do. it is hard. there are certain things we can't control, what their fender will say at school and the media is obviously a huge influence and we are seeing the age that girls are sexualized, bull ecoming younger and younger and you look at fashion, you are supposed to look like a woman and we don't have control though we can push them in the direction of what kinds of friends to pick, who are supportive and not focus on appearance and what to wear. but the reality is, they live in a world we can't control, where encouraging them to likal the self as -- like themselves as much as they can. they will have pressures and be self-critical but to find things they like about their appearance and things they like to do with their body, sports or dance. it's not just about how it looks but how it function and people take my com