. >> reporter: monae and her husband vaughn copeland called it quits after just five weeks. >> you got my keys? >> got the keys. >>ou have almost 5,000 >> reporter: since then monae has tried and failed at finding mr. right. >> i feel like i deserve something better than what i've been getting from the men i'm dating. >> reporter: it's an issue that black women in particular have a lot to say about. >> it is very hard for black in fact, just about every black woman you ask that question will say that it's almost impossible. >> reporter: according to the census, black women are far less likely than their white counterparts to get mayor rried. >> people don't want to admit what the reality is. professional black women are not making it up. >> reporter: at 34 monet is still on a quest for true love, this time on another reality show, " #blacklove." " #blacklove" is self-help meets "sex and the city." an inside look at the dating and drama of five single black women living in new york city. all attempting to discover what's keeping them from finding love. >> what i really want is a ntleman