.>> reporter: kathy @dawson the -- kathy dawson says @relationship. @>> take it slow if it is a new @relationship. @if you have been dating three @months and it is valentine's @place, it could scare them. @>> reporter: if your @relationship is stuck in a @rut, don't think one big @holiday and extravaganza isn't @going to -- holiday @extravaganza isn't going to @make the difference. @the big thing is get @uncomfortable. @>> if you are used to sending @roses or candy or cards, don't @do it. @do something that makes your @heart beat and your hands @sweat and make sure upper left @skip to your gums -- stick to @your gums.>> reporter: [ @indiscernible ] @>> it's the big day. @let's go out and scope it out @and see if we can meet the @right one. @to me that reeks of @desperation. @>> reporter: if you are just @looking for part of the course @-- par for the course, the @average american will spend @$150 is valentine's day season. @ @anthony be coming to @cleveland? @the cavs would have to ship @someone out to give nine time @ @>>> of morning. @the nba trading deadline comes @up on thursday.

. @>> relationship coach kathy @dawson says that's the secret. @so how big should you go? @if it's a new romance -- @>> take is slow. @even if you just miss this one @this year, no buggy. @if you think oh, we've been @dating three months and it's @valentine's day, i'm really @going to knock his knocks off @and he or she is not at that @place, that could scare them. @>> if your relationship is @stuck in a rut, don't think one @holiday is going to fix it all. @one big gesture on february @14th is like a band aid. @it could also send mixed @signals. @if you're in a committed @relationship but romantically @challenged, dawson says the big @thing is get uncomfortable. @>> if you're used to sending @roses, if you're used to @sending candy, don't do that. @do something that makes your @heart beat. @makes your hands sweat and @makes your upper lipstick to @your gums. @to mingle, dawson says maybe @think again. @>> oh, it's the big day. @one. @desperation. @>> if you're looking to shoot @par for the course this year, @the estimate is about $150 that @valentine's day this year. @com

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