so, what is the secret for nick bollettieri? nick: the excitement.life, i love helping children. to see a smile go home with a smile on their face and say i can do it and then want to come back and do things. being a coach of 10 number ones in the world, that is fantastic. but helping people, i'm with the usta foundation now, giving hope to inner-city children and concentrating on their education and character. i like that. charlie: how do you teach them? nick: i teach them first of all, to know that you always say, i will, i can, and i will do it no matter what. but what most people do, charlie. most parents today grade children by their grades. vince lombardi said, "my teams never lost. we just ran out of time." even though the score dictates the winner, effort can also make you a winner. parents must understand that. , did you get an a? my grandmother when it came from from school, you were a good boy today? she did not ask me how i did in school. she asked me if i tried. and that is a message i think is very important. charlie: the italians have