and i think-- as long as guback to being honest and assessing your role in everything right first, beforeeone else's that's around you. i think you can grow and get better and you can always recover. >> who were you when you were a 25-year-old coach? and royou today, many years later? how have you changed? >> 25 years old i was assistant to coach mass mino at vill nova, watching this great coach who won a national championship, do some things and think at 25, "why the hell would he do that?" you know "i got all these ideas. i would never do that." and all these years later, i find myself doing some of the same things. >> turning into your father. >> but understanding what you need to do as head coach is define your culture. if your culture is defined and your values are clear, your decisions are easier. and i found that as a leader, what i have to do is define how we're going to live, not just how we're going to play basketball, but what is our-- what is our motto going to be? what is our core values going to be? how are we gog live every day, not just as coaches and players but as a fami