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. >> it is impossible to live without failing at something msu lives so cautiously that he might as wellhave lived at all. john: coming up why letting your child fail and fall is a good thing. gene when i asked you on facebook what are good examples of failure that turned into success, babies learning to walk. they all fall down again and again but keep on trying until they succeed. yes it's a great example. babies learning to walk, just in the humans. if people are left to their own devices as this commercial suggests. >> full of set backs and bumps. john: babies fall trying to bakken and they try again. here's a similar commercial from india. they are selling baby oil but they also show the thrill that baby and mom when a child is left on his own long enough to triumph by taking his first steps. today kids managed to learn to walk but many parents want to protect their kids from falling. such protection is a bad thing says the author of playing to win and that sociologists hillary levy friedman. to bad thing because? >> unless you learn to fail you can never actually learn what it feel

a sense that something needs to be new renegotiated but i think the foundational accord still sticks and i think a lot of libyans recognize that and you better not jump into the darkness msugot something to replace us. >> are you optimistic that there might be progress as a result of the discussion in rome and the potential, what appears to be maybe they're getting close to a compromise agreement? is that something that is promising that may offer hope for people? >> i would agree with doctor wary that people don't want to throw out the baby with the bathwater and the fact that the international community and the united nations endorse this agreement and supported it, after a long time, it took a long time. in the process libyans learned a lot about political dialogue. it was a politically illiterate country in so many ways and having been part of that process for all those years, i saw this firsthand. i think they want to modify and extend. they would like to see, my sense is, and what i hear from libyans, they would like to see a final integration between the house of representatives with an authority that's not overly overwhelming. they don't want a strong authority. t