. >> now someone that everybody who's ever loved a romantic comedy roots for is meg ryan. >> ahh!fell in love with her. and women fell in love with her. and it really launched meg ryan as a romantic comedy icon. >> she's talking about "when harry met sally." and everyone remembers what was served up at that new york city deli. >> oh. >> are you okay? >> oh. >> in the original script, sally was just going to tell harry, women fake orgasms and meg ryan was like, you know, why don't i just act it out? >> but when filming started, rob reiner thought meg ryan needed a little more direction. >> and i went through it. i started pounding the table, yes. >> oh, yeah, right there. >> they talk about it on the dvd extra. >> he's pounding, he's screaming and that voice, yes, yes, yes! and he's sweating. >> yes, yes, yes! oh! oh, yes. >> takes me aside and goes, buddy, i just had an orgasm in front of my mother. >> oh, god. oh. >> sure enough, it was reiner's mother estelle who would utter that now unforgettable line. >> i'll have what she's having. >> romance movies are filled with grand gest