tommy lucassi founded one of stockholm's first men's groups. mmy: we men have to start changing our attitudes towards ourselves, our self-images, and what we're allowed to talk about. personally, i've gotten more relaxed and self-confident since i've been able to let myself be weak now and then. reporter: tommy says he wants his son to grow up with different values. since linnea claeson started publicly defending herself against sexual harassment, the threats and insults have only increased. that scares her, but not enough to make her give up. linnea: i hope that girls born nowadays won't have to experience what i've been through. to be confronted with sexual violence their whole life long is something nobody should have to deal with. we shouldn't have to live like that. reporter: there's a long way yet to go, linnea adds, before women can live with true freedom and respect -- even in sweden. michelle: getting along with your neighbor -- it's a key tenet of life. and it's also one of the many rules for joining the eu -- any and all border disput