here is how jenny willoby described her relationship with her ex-hub. >> after an argument where we were both yelling in each other's faces which unfortunately had become the norm in our marriage and i removed myself from the situation to take a shower, to cool down, to disengage from the situation, he came to the shower and opened the door and pulled me out to continue yelling at me. >> he put his hands on you and pulled you out? >> yeah. >> was that a startling moment for you? >> i think up until that moment, i didn't realize that i was in an abusive marriage. i think it sounds almost ridiculous coming out of my wife given how i can speak about it and remember things now, i don't know it was that moment that i realized that i was with a man who was capable of something like that. today, chief of staff kelly volunteered he had only been told of emotional abuse. she put out a statement, my only sadness is when kelly first defended the statement of rob saying they thought it was only emotional abuse. he changed the statement after realizing it was physical abuse. emotional and psychologic