i will never forget when barbara and i, 7-year-olds, snuck into the boley alley of the white house andident's peanut butter sandwiches and couldn't wait to be delivered the fanciest sandwich of our lives. you opened the door. scolding us, telling us under no circumstances could we order food in the white house again. this was not a hotel. you taught us humility and grace. you and gampy embodied unki unconditional love. henry and i asked you to read at our wedding to emulate your love story. your love letters will are passed down to our daughters to know what true love looks like. our nights spent around the dinner table at maine laughing at family stories made all the better because of your life and humor was necessary because of summers you spent surrounded by 17 raucous gandkids kennebunkport, created giant bubble baths, loved doing cannonballs under your head while you peacefully slammed laughs. from you i learned uniqueness from wearing mixed matched keds and your snow white hair you taught us humor and grace are important and caring too much up a your looks is minor. who you are m