there is only a 14—month gap between my other daughter, shireen, and amber.ything. she gets the most stressed as well. i think the hardest things for my mum being a carer has been having to give up a lot of her dreams she would have liked to have done, because she is always looking after amber and she has had to take care of her. for me, that makes me very sad that she doesn't see how wonderful she is and how much she has achieved. being a carer is an amazing thing as well. i have never been inside a castle before. it is really beautiful. it is so nice, the view is amazing, as soon as we got here... it was like "wow". so, whether it is nights at hotels, tickets for special events or posh tea parties, it seems that mytime has hit on a simple but effective way to help the hidden heroes of our care system. we chat with other people and you hear what their problems are and that puts your own problems into perspective sometimes, it is important that other carers find out about it. i found out about it, i was desperate. it isjust great. it really is. hello. a few d