know it's him and not ug, oh, my don't you ge one of t suited f ashes, and is that the story that out dispi i think that people have always been the most disadvantaged people becdisadva givethuge, then you don't get? t you gave themverything but the work ethic, and we have to go back to not shieldingield them d transformation and how you your veryst, preacher. something that maybe you didn't happen. >>right.>> how did she feel abo writing this book and telling her story? >> i never spoke u about itil she did. i felt like it was her story to tell. the reason that i am nowab talkg ut it is, i am talking about it from a parents' perspective. we go through the same thing but we go through it from a different point of view. i wrote it to all the parents who are tempted to give up right nowbecause they feel like i am not a very good parent or my son is in jail or my daughter didn't do what i wantedr her to do o they dropped out of school or they are in some rehab center, or whateverhat is t makes you think that their outcome is false, and i wrote it from the parents' perspective to say it's possi