two months later she packed her jetta with whatever she could fit in it and arrived at her parents' doorstep>> surprised? >> i received a text saying, can i come home? i said, you don't even need to ask. >> why were you not suited for him, in your opinion? >> i didn't feel the relationship was not healthy for me. >> not nurturing? >> not nurturing. >> tempers? >> let's just say i'm not a strong personality, so i have to be very careful the kind of people i surround myself with. it's better not to be in a relationship than to be in a bad one. >> there were still ties, the mortgage, the deed in anaheim, which became a source of tension. both hired lawyers, but it got personal. michelle claimed ian was unfaithful, even abusive. she sent him a strange email. the language laced with religiosity and the bible, satan and a mythical woman named lilith. please explain to your lawyer that all law the law of man. it is a weak shield that will bend and track against the sword of god. ian denied her allegations and said he was so alarmed for michelle's email, that he applied for a restraining order again