been broken like there's too much violence i have to activists join me now from south africa mandisa kinealy is the director of rise up against stand up based violence and. rani is aids and activist thanks for talking to us mandisa it woman is killed every 3 hours in south africa what is to blame for that. callimachi the issue that we had is the reaction out of me saying that soc sec masculinity and maybe are you now cites and also a society that actually has a lot of trauma that hasn't been result without psycho social supports or any type of services available so you find it made of facing itself in the most violent of grades and unfortunately that's why i asked him a cite rates is so high. now little man guild describes what is wrong with south african men. i mean what is wrong with men in the world right as mandy says there is this toxic masculinity that just continues to let men believe that then title 2 women's bodies and that toxic masculinity in that form of control and power is the reason why men think that they can rape and kill women and gender nonconforming people in south africa