and richard sackler writes back: "abusers aren't the victims; they are the victimisers."ell you, every time i read this email it's hard to read, it's hard to stomach that someone would write about people who are suffering, people who are in real distress and people who have died. we are learning more about a former football star found dead in an apparent drug overdose, last friday in scottsdale... i am angry, that the world lost a really wonderful person. and i am angry that his daughter has to grow up without a father, and i am angry that i don't get to hug my son. this is wherejill hernandez came to watch her son brock grow up every weekend. this field brings back a lot of memories. he just lived for being on the field. that's brock, number 22, when he was 13 years old. he was just a gifted athlete — basketball, baseball, football. football was his passion. he was such a good player and he gave his heart every single game. there were injuries every year, if not every season, for whatever he was playing. and sometimes that led to a broken bone, a surgery, you know, screw