and if you want to bet your heart in las vegas, well, you can put that on the line, too, if you're in a betting mood and debrand very loved. i felt, well, if he's the love of my life, i'm ready. >> they had opinion dabeen dati months when she went away on business and john went along. >> we went to a courthouse and just got married before a judge. >> like that. >> just like that. >> married. nobody there but them. and their secret, they decided, said deborah, they wouldn't tell anyone. >> i knew my family would be not very happy with me. >> what did it feel like? >> very mixed emotions. a little empty knowing that they're not on board with this. >> that's all on one side. on the other side there's this rush of happiness and good feeling, right? >> yes. >> so debra's daughters, protective as usual, had no idea she was a newlywed. her therapist remembered that she keep her relationship separate from her family. but christmas was coming, like the one where tara would have her own time with the extended nieces and nephews of their family. so john would stay in a different room where tara would be able to enjoy th