but i think i was able to know quite a lot, also i was able to read materials of these basically landon stein -- [inaudible] who came to iran to try to help these refugees and they wrote things. they left a lot of records. and letters and they write letters to their children so i was able to read those. this is my source,. >> how did your parents make? that had to be difficult relationship did your mom know what she was getting into? >> it was a difficult relationship and also my mom was. [inaudible] my mom was born in palestine in 38. she didn't know anything, she was -- they were very mismatched in a way. they met on a beach or something like that, even now she read this book and was shocked. she had lived with this man all of these years and had no idea. >> anybody else? >> i want to thank you all for coming and thank you for writing this incredible book. i encourage you to read it. she will sign some copies for you if anybody was to buy it. thanks again for showing up. >> thank you very much for coming. i have to remember this in every talk please follow me on twitter and facebook because